5 Ways To Get What You Want

Have you always wanted to get what you want but didn’t know how to ask for it?  Or what to do?  

There are numerous ways in which you can make someone do exactly what you want.  Also, making someone do what you want is not considered to be very ethical, and is called manipulation.

However, it’s not like you are some evil mastermind if you just push the person in the right direction! Therefore, there are numerous theories and ways in which you can suggest someone how to do something, so what if that’s something coincides with what you have wanted? Big deal!  Anyhow, here are some ways in which you can nudge someone in the right direction.

  1. Do Someone A Favor 

If you want someone to do something for you, make sure that you first do something for them.  By doing the small favor, or a big one, to someone will make them feel more connected to you, but they will also feel slightly in debt to you, and will probably agree to any of your suggestions.  Therefore, if you have the opportunity to do someone a favor, you should most certainly do it!

  1. Mirror Body LanguageClose up of a happy couple holding wine glasses

When asking someone for something you should try to mirror their body language.  By mirroring their body language you are showing them that you are similar to them.  In return, they will feel more connected to you and they will probably agree to help you with whatever you want.

  1. Get Your Foot In The Door First

Numerous studies have shown that if you want to ask someone for a favor you should start by asking them for a smaller favor first.  Therefore, you will ask them for in this small insignificant thing, and once they agree, this will make them much more open to agreeing to other favors which are big.

  1. Flatter Them

It is not a secret that flattering will get you places.  If you want something from someone, you should start by being genuine attention to them and paying them compliments.  This strategy will help you immensely.  Just be careful that your true intentions don’t show off too early or at a wrong moment. This could potentially ruin everything. Also, make sure that the compliments you pay are genuine ones, or they will see right through you!pw9ne2mtbukuctfteuny

  1. Agree With Them

I have probably mentioned a couple of times before, but truly it has been scientifically proven that we like people who are similar to us.  When talking to the person you are trying to persuade to do something, try to agree with them as much as you can.  This will create a sense of special connection and the feeling of fondness.  Once this person is fond of you and like you, they are more likely to give in to your suggestions.

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